Past research has concluded that individuals with autism have social cognitive impairments. However, it is important to note that the social impairments are not the “end-all-be-all” as no conclusions about social manners should fully be thought as set in stone.
Check this out-a research study was done testing the prosocial behavior among children with autism in contrast with children that do not have autism. Prosocial behavior was found with those that have autism as autistic children were willing and readily able to engage in appropriate prosocial behavior. It is found that when the cost of engaging in prosocial behavior is high, meaning that prosocial behavior is crucial, those with ASD are not as willing to engage in helping. This makes sense though… think about it. They are under pressure and the stakes are higher. Those with autism typically work better not under pressure or tested in the moment. Research here has concluded that the need and the drive to act on behalf of another play important roles in how those with ASD will engage in helpful behavior.
So what? Well, this research is bright! We understand that ASD individuals have a helping hand and can understand others perspectives and needs. However, we also realize what when they are being put under pressure, this will influence their helping behavior. SO… remaining calm in scenarios and deflating situations is a good start to apply these findings in everyday life. Let’s say that you have a son with ASD and you realize that you have lost your keys before having to leave for an urgent meeting. You need your son to help. Remind yourself that those with ASD are typically more prosocial when the stakes are not high. Instead of acting out of hand, show him that you are calm and tell him the scenario. Yes, you can talk about how you have to leave soon but do not emphasize it as that will add pressure. This will make the situation more calming and productive. Give this technique a shot… would love to hear how it goes.
Link to the research article 🙂 https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.00025/full
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